Patty S asks:
Please see below. This is the content of an email from my caller I received today. She is despondent. We are talking tomorrow at 3. Any assistance will help me. This has been building. The young man also has legal issues and faces being deported to India if he continues in this path. He is 19 years old. Any advice for me is appreciated!!! David is the son and Agni is the step dad. Bio dad is an addict and not in his life
I feel so helpless and broken. David was thrown out of the house on 4th. Abhi used extremely harsh and colourful language and literally threw him out. He found him sleeping in the backyard in the morning and threw him out from there too. David's boss called me and said he doesn't have a job there anymore as he hasn't turned up for 2 days.
All of this happened because Abhi asked David where his salary went. He was supposed to pay us back bail money. David said he had to pay a friend he owed. Abhi asked him for the rest and David was humming a tune disrespectfully when he gave it. Abhi flew off the handle and I couldn't do anything to mitigate the situation. David had to leave with nothing.
I don 't know what to do. I cannot even begin to explain how I am feeling. David called me once he left and asked me what to do. I told him to try apologizing but he said he will not. I told him that may be his only way back in but his ego is too big. And I know he cannot afford to have an ego.
I'm so torn Patty. This is a broken family.
Waiting to talk to you so. It makes me feel better.